When we were young, making friends at school was simple, we shared meals, played together, and it happened naturally. If we fought, we either made up quickly or simply stopped talking. In short, social relationships were incredibly straightforward back then.

As we age and times change, it is only natural that social dynamics become less simple. We often find ourselves facing complex situations that are difficult to navigate. Let’s discuss how to build social relationships that harmonize with our changing ages, careers, and environments without compromising our personal values or well-being.

Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

In modern social building, Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is considered one of the most critical factors. High EQ includes qualities such as listening with genuine intent, taking personal responsibility, admitting one's mistakes, and accepting that perfection doesn't exist while respecting everyone. In this context, respecting the unique identity of every individual is a modern key to healthy relationships.

Relationships in the Digital Era

Social media has taken up a massive space in modern social life. On one hand, it acts as a bridge that brings people closer more easily; on the other, it can be a blade that breaks relationships quickly. It is important to use social media primarily for staying in touch and sharing meaningful information. You should also remember that just because someone is easily reachable doesn't mean they must be available at all times. Everyone is navigating their own life and struggles, so we shouldn't take social media interactions too personally.

Circles of Social Relationships

To maintain social ties without losing your "me-time," you should organize your community into circles. You can categorize them into three main areas: the Inner Circle, the Networking Circle, and the Community Circle.

• Inner Circle: This consists of your "ride or die" friends and family members. After yourself, the people in this circle are the most important.
• Networking Circle: This includes people essential to your professional growth and career success.
• Community Circle: This covers general acquaintances and casual social connections.

The goal of these circles is not to practice discrimination or purely seek self-interest. Rather, the purpose is to manage your social life effectively so that your personal time and boundaries remain intact.

Modern social relationships are undoubtedly more complex and harder to build and maintain. The most important thing to keep in mind is this: regardless of the type of relationship, strive to avoid causing emotional trauma to one another and never sacrifice your own personal values or self-worth.